Dan in Real Life

Dan in Real Life

Something's happening to Dan. It's confusing. It's awkward. It's family.

Directed by Peter Hedges

Produced by Touchstone Pictures, Focus Features

200798 min6.6 / 10

A warm, family-centered romantic comedy about a widowed advice columnist navigating love, parental responsibility, and sibling loyalty during a chaotic holiday gathering.

Advice columnist Dan Burns is an expert on relationships, but somehow struggles to succeed as a brother, a son and a single parent to three precocious daughters. Things get even more complicated when Dan finds out that the woman he falls in love with is actually his brother's new girlfriend.

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  • Is Dan in Real Life one of a kind? No. Less singular than 96% of films.

  • Is Dan in Real Life violent? No. Less violent than 92% of films.

  • Is Dan in Real Life easy watching? Yes, very. More comforting than 90% of films.

  • Is Dan in Real Life scary? Barely. Less frightening than 84% of films.

  • Does Dan in Real Life end with hope? Yes. More hopeful than 81% of films.

  • Is Dan in Real Life sad? About average. Almost exactly mid-range.

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