
Holding the Man
A love story for everyone.
Directed by Neil Armfield
Produced by Goalpost Pictures, Screen Australia
A tender, melancholic portrait of a 15-year same-sex love story tested by discrimination, jealousy, and ultimately AIDS, grounded in warmth and deep connection despite inevitable loss.
Tim and John fell in love while teenagers at their all-boys high school. John was captain of the football team, Tim an aspiring actor playing a minor part in Romeo and Juliet. Their romance endured for 15 years in the face of everything life threw at it – the separations, the discrimination, the temptations, the jealousies and the losses – until the only problem that love can't solve tried to destroy them.
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Is Holding the Man sad? Yes, very. More sad than 92% of films.
Is Holding the Man scary? Barely. Less frightening than 84% of films.
Is Holding the Man violent? Not especially. Less violent than 74% of films.
Is Holding the Man easy watching? Somewhat. More comforting than 62% of films.
Does Holding the Man end with hope? Somewhat. More hopeful than 62% of films.
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Similar, pushed toward heavier and more intense.
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Similar, pushed toward warmer and easier.
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Same territory, far fewer people have seen it.





























































