How Do You Know

How Do You Know

How do you know it's love?

Directed by James L. Brooks

Produced by Columbia Pictures, Gracie Films

2010121 min5.3 / 10

A romantic comedy about self-discovery and choosing between two suitors, grounded in the emotional vulnerability of a woman reassessing her identity after athletic disappointment.

After being cut from the USA softball team and feeling a bit past her prime, Lisa finds herself evaluating her life and in the middle of a love triangle, as a corporate guy in crisis competes with her current, baseball-playing beau.

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  • Is How Do You Know one of a kind? No. Less singular than 100% of films.

  • Is How Do You Know violent? No. Less violent than 92% of films.

  • Is How Do You Know scary? Barely. Less frightening than 84% of films.

  • Is How Do You Know easy watching? Yes. More comforting than 82% of films.

  • Does How Do You Know end with hope? Yes. More hopeful than 81% of films.

  • Is How Do You Know sad? About average. Almost exactly mid-range.

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Cinnamon Score

How much this film gives you that nothing else will, and whether it delivers.

Conventional, and it does not land.

Rarity4

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Surprise4

How much more it delivers than it promises

Love5

How much audiences actually like it

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Same territory, far fewer people have seen it.

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