The Boys in the Band

The Boys in the Band

Directed by Joe Mantello

Produced by Ryan Murphy Television

2020122 min6.8 / 10

A tense, introspective ensemble drama set at a 1968 birthday party where a drunken game forces seven gay friends to confront hidden resentments, shame, and the fractures beneath their bonds.

At a birthday party in 1968 New York, a surprise guest and a drunken game leave seven gay friends reckoning with unspoken feelings and buried truths.

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  • Is The Boys in the Band sad? Yes. More sad than 82% of films.

  • Is The Boys in the Band violent? Barely. Less violent than 76% of films.

  • Is The Boys in the Band scary? Not especially. Less frightening than 65% of films.

  • Does The Boys in the Band end with hope? Not especially. Less hopeful than 64% of films.

  • Is The Boys in the Band easy watching? About average. Almost exactly mid-range.

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49/ 100

Cinnamon Score

How much this film gives you that nothing else will, and whether it delivers.

Familiar shape, done well.

Rarity73

How unlike any other film this one feels

Surprise22

How much more it delivers than it promises

Love60

How much audiences actually like it

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Like The Boys in the Band

Nearest across the full emotional profile.

Same Mood as The Boys in the Band

Nearest on what's most distinctive about this one.

Like The Boys in the Band, But Darker

Similar, pushed toward heavier and more intense.

Like The Boys in the Band, But Lighter

Similar, pushed toward warmer and easier.

Like The Boys in the Band, But Less Popular

Same territory, far fewer people have seen it.

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