The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them

The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them

Two films. One love.

Directed by Ned Benson

Produced by Myriad Pictures, Unison Films

2014119 min6.2 / 10

A deeply introspective dual-perspective study of a marriage fractured by grief, exploring how loss isolates even those closest to each other.

A New York couple's relationship is tested after the loss of their child. This film is the wide-released combination of the original two :him and :her volumes that premiered at the Cannes Film Festival.

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  • Is The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them sad? Yes, very. More sad than 99% of films.

  • Is The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them violent? Barely. Less violent than 86% of films.

  • Does The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them end with hope? Not especially. Less hopeful than 70% of films.

  • Is The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them scary? Not especially. Less frightening than 65% of films.

  • Is The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them easy watching? Not especially. Less comforting than 61% of films.

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