You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah

7th grade drama just hits different.

Directed by Sammi Cohen

Produced by Happy Madison Productions, Alloy Entertainment

2023103 min6.5 / 10

A warm, energetic coming-of-age comedy about friendship, identity, and the high stakes of middle school, grounded in Jewish cultural tradition and sisterhood.

Stacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic bat mitzvahs. But things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendship and their rite of passage.

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  • Is You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah easy watching? Yes, very. More comforting than 90% of films.

  • Is You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah one of a kind? Barely. Less singular than 87% of films.

  • Is You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah violent? Barely. Less violent than 86% of films.

  • Does You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah end with hope? Yes. More hopeful than 85% of films.

  • Is You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah scary? Barely. Less frightening than 84% of films.

  • Is You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah sad? Not especially. Less sad than 67% of films.

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38/ 100

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