You Hurt My Feelings

You Hurt My Feelings

Directed by Nicole Holofcener

Produced by Likely Story

202393 min6.3 / 10

A witty, character-driven comedy-drama about how honesty can wound even the strongest marriages, exploring the tension between love and truth in a long-term relationship.

A novelist's longstanding marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband giving his honest reaction to her latest book.

Questions people ask

  • Is You Hurt My Feelings violent? No. Less violent than 92% of films.

  • Is You Hurt My Feelings easy watching? Somewhat. More comforting than 67% of films.

  • Is You Hurt My Feelings scary? Not especially. Less frightening than 65% of films.

  • Does You Hurt My Feelings end with hope? Somewhat. More hopeful than 65% of films.

  • Is You Hurt My Feelings sad? Somewhat. More sad than 61% of films.

These describe how the film comes across, measured across the whole film and compared with other well-known films. They are not a content list — nothing here was counted or checked scene by scene, so for age-suitability or specific content use a classification board or a dedicated content-warning service.

32/ 100

Cinnamon Score

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Rarity46

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Surprise18

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Love35

How much audiences actually like it

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