Forgive and Forget

Forgive and Forget

Directed by Aisling Walsh

2000100 min5.4 / 10

A painful drama about repressed desire and self-deception that culminates in a public reckoning with devastating personal consequences.

David O'Neil, a plasterer and mature student Theo have been best mates for fourteen years and are practically inseparable. However, their friendship has become strained as Theo is about to move in with his long-term girlfriend, photographer Hannah. A raging jealousy awakes in David and he starts scheming to break up the loving couple using Hannah's insecurities against them. When the couple eventually separate David is in a quandary about his next move and is forced to confront his long-hidden homosexuality and feelings towards Theo. Eventually, David decides to reveal his sexual orientation and deep love for Theo very publicly by arranging for them both to appear as guests on Judith Adams' talk-show, "forgive and forget", with tragic consequences for their friendship and David's family.

Questions people ask

  • Is Forgive and Forget sad? Yes, very. More sad than 96% of films.

  • Does Forgive and Forget end with hope? Barely. Less hopeful than 83% of films.

  • Is Forgive and Forget violent? Not especially. Less violent than 64% of films.

  • Is Forgive and Forget scary? Not especially. Less frightening than 58% of films.

  • Is Forgive and Forget easy watching? About average. Almost exactly mid-range.

These describe how the film comes across, measured across the whole film and compared with other well-known films. They are not a content list — nothing here was counted or checked scene by scene, so for age-suitability or specific content use a classification board or a dedicated content-warning service.

17/ 100

Cinnamon Score

How much this film gives you that nothing else will, and whether it delivers.

Conventional, and it does not land.

Rarity59

How unlike any other film this one feels

Surprise5

How much more it delivers than it promises

Love7

How much audiences actually like it

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Ensemble

Like Forgive and Forget

Nearest across the full emotional profile.

Same Mood as Forgive and Forget

Nearest on what's most distinctive about this one.

Like Forgive and Forget, But Darker

Similar, pushed toward heavier and more intense.

Like Forgive and Forget, But Lighter

Similar, pushed toward warmer and easier.

Like Forgive and Forget, But Less Popular

Same territory, far fewer people have seen it.

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