Once in a Lifetime

Once in a Lifetime

Directed by Susanne Bier

Produced by SVT, Nordisk Film Sweden

2000108 min4.5 / 10

A warmly eccentric character study about found family and unconditional care, centered on the bond between a Eurovision-loving caregiver and a disabled young man pursuing creative redemption.

Mona Bergström is a sweet eurovision-obsessed woman in her 30s. She is married to a lazy husband and has four children, all named after her favorite Swedish Eurovision popstars. Her brother is a crossdressing guy self-titled "Candy Darling". Mona works in a retirement home for disabled people, where she is responsible for taking care of a young man named David who suffers a movement-restricting disease forcing him into a wheelchair. David's parents have abandoned him, as they wanted a normal child. Mona holds a big place in David's heart, and vica versa. David's goal is to get his parents to come and visit him, and he wants to show them that he is a great person, despite his handicap. Therefore he works with music on his computer, and his goal is to create a song, send it to "The Cardigans", a famous Swedish band and have them play the song and credit him, hoping his parents would spot it and want to visit him.

Questions people ask

  • Is Once in a Lifetime violent? Barely. Less violent than 86% of films.

  • Is Once in a Lifetime scary? Barely. Less frightening than 84% of films.

  • Is Once in a Lifetime easy watching? Yes. More comforting than 82% of films.

  • Does Once in a Lifetime end with hope? Somewhat. More hopeful than 71% of films.

  • Is Once in a Lifetime sad? Somewhat. More sad than 70% of films.

These describe how the film comes across, measured across the whole film and compared with other well-known films. They are not a content list — nothing here was counted or checked scene by scene, so for age-suitability or specific content use a classification board or a dedicated content-warning service.

8/ 100

Cinnamon Score

How much this film gives you that nothing else will, and whether it delivers.

Conventional, and it does not land.

Rarity30

How unlike any other film this one feels

Surprise2

How much more it delivers than it promises

Love4

How much audiences actually like it

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Ensemble

Like Once in a Lifetime

Nearest across the full emotional profile.

Same Mood as Once in a Lifetime

Nearest on what's most distinctive about this one.

Like Once in a Lifetime, But Darker

Similar, pushed toward heavier and more intense.

Like Once in a Lifetime, But Lighter

Similar, pushed toward warmer and easier.

Like Once in a Lifetime, But Less Popular

Same territory, far fewer people have seen it.

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