sex, lies, and videotape

sex, lies, and videotape

the husband. the wife. her sister. his friend.

Directed by Steven Soderbergh

Produced by Outlaw Productions

1989101 min7.0 / 10

A psychologically tense chamber piece about desire, deception, and voyeurism that uses intimate interviews and minimal staging to excavate the sexual and emotional dysfunction beneath a marriage's surface.

Ann, a frustrated wife, enters into counseling due to a troubled marriage. Unbeknownst to her, her husband John has begun an affair with her sister. When John’s best friend Graham arrives, his penchant for interviewing women about their sex lives forever changes John and Ann’s rocky marriage.

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  • Is sex, lies, and videotape sad? Yes. More sad than 82% of films.

  • Is sex, lies, and videotape violent? Barely. Less violent than 76% of films.

  • Is sex, lies, and videotape scary? Somewhat. More frightening than 67% of films.

  • Does sex, lies, and videotape end with hope? Not especially. Less hopeful than 64% of films.

  • Is sex, lies, and videotape easy watching? Not especially. Less comforting than 61% of films.

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77/ 100

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