The Man I Love

The Man I Love

Directed by Stéphane Giusti

Produced by Ellipsanime Productions, La Sept-Arte

199787 min6.3 / 10

A tender coming-of-age romance that balances the joy of first love and self-discovery with the sobering realities of identity, loss, and mortality.

This is a combination coming out and first love story. The swimmer and diver Lucard is interested in attractive Martin. The film follows the characters' coming out with all its difficulties, the bitter-sweet pleasures of first love and the dreadful moment when one comes down to reality and realizes that one's beloved friend has a hard way to go yet. The positive message the film tries to transmit is the somewhat common motto "Live each day of your life as if it were your last."

Questions people ask

  • Is The Man I Love violent? Barely. Less violent than 86% of films.

  • Is The Man I Love sad? Yes. More sad than 75% of films.

  • Is The Man I Love easy watching? Somewhat. More comforting than 71% of films.

  • Is The Man I Love scary? Not especially. Less frightening than 65% of films.

  • Does The Man I Love end with hope? Somewhat. More hopeful than 62% of films.

These describe how the film comes across, measured across the whole film and compared with other well-known films. They are not a content list — nothing here was counted or checked scene by scene, so for age-suitability or specific content use a classification board or a dedicated content-warning service.

24/ 100

Cinnamon Score

How much this film gives you that nothing else will, and whether it delivers.

Conventional, and it does not land.

Rarity16

How unlike any other film this one feels

Surprise22

How much more it delivers than it promises

Love35

How much audiences actually like it

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Ensemble

Like The Man I Love

Nearest across the full emotional profile.

Same Mood as The Man I Love

Nearest on what's most distinctive about this one.

Like The Man I Love, But Darker

Similar, pushed toward heavier and more intense.

Like The Man I Love, But Lighter

Similar, pushed toward warmer and easier.

Like The Man I Love, But Less Popular

Same territory, far fewer people have seen it.

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