The Pallbearer

The Pallbearer

Something magical is about to unfold in the most unexpected place.

Directed by Matt Reeves

Produced by The Chess Club, Miramax

199697 min4.9 / 10

A lighthearted romantic comedy built on mistaken identity and awkward social situations, where a man stumbles into reconnecting with his teenage crush while entangled in an absurd funeral scheme.

Aspiring architect Tom Thompson is told by mysterious Ruth Abernathy that his best friend, "Bill," has taken his own life. Except that Tom has never met Bill and neither have his incredulous friends. So when Tom foolishly agrees to give the eulogy at Bill's funeral, it sets him on a collision course with Ruth -- who is revealed to be Bill's oversexed mother -- and Julie DeMarco, the longtime crush Tom hasn't seen since they were teens.

Questions people ask

  • Is The Pallbearer violent? No. Less violent than 92% of films.

  • Is The Pallbearer easy watching? Yes. More comforting than 77% of films.

  • Is The Pallbearer scary? Barely. Less frightening than 76% of films.

  • Is The Pallbearer sad? Not especially. Less sad than 73% of films.

  • Does The Pallbearer end with hope? Somewhat. More hopeful than 70% of films.

These describe how the film comes across, measured across the whole film and compared with other well-known films. They are not a content list — nothing here was counted or checked scene by scene, so for age-suitability or specific content use a classification board or a dedicated content-warning service.

9/ 100

Cinnamon Score

How much this film gives you that nothing else will, and whether it delivers.

Conventional, and it does not land.

Rarity21

How unlike any other film this one feels

Surprise6

How much more it delivers than it promises

Love4

How much audiences actually like it

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Ensemble

Like The Pallbearer

Nearest across the full emotional profile.

Same Mood as The Pallbearer

Nearest on what's most distinctive about this one.

Like The Pallbearer, But Darker

Similar, pushed toward heavier and more intense.

Like The Pallbearer, But Lighter

Similar, pushed toward warmer and easier.

Like The Pallbearer, But Less Popular

Same territory, far fewer people have seen it.

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